The Love-what is love

The Love

A good relationship, it's not a game we play or a party we do with our self (ego trip). It is a matter of love and two people. Loving someone can bring us the greatest joy that we know in our lives, but it can also hurt us more than we ever will believe.
 If we love someone, we should be ready to do as well experience the happiness of grief. This is the reward and the risk to take. Unless you are willing to experience it, we never really know what it is to love and be loved. Share Love is probably the most valuable and most significant experience that a person can live. And there is a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone. This is the difference between a fickle love, crazy, short and tender, passionate and enduring love. The first is easy. The second one that really matters to all of us, takes work --- because it is to keep the relationship.Loving someone takes effort. We must be able to communicate with each other. Nobody can read the mind of another person. We always presume that our partner knows what we think and feel. Perhaps with time we can be able to predict or feel the thoughts of the one and the other, but it is never perfect and it takes time to develop. Having the chance to love and be loved by someone is a blessing. Respect the other for what he / she is and not for what you want he / she is. Nobody is perfect. This is true love which closes the gap imperfection to form a smooth surface of acceptance of one and the other. True love sees and accepts a person for what it is. This is also true love that allows a person to change for the better. Though the power of true love is undeniable, a relationship also needs commitment. Anyway, what's love without the commitment to each other? It's like principles and values. Everyone has but they do not want to say more than what we are willing to do to defend. It's the same thing for our commitments to relationships and to the person we love. "Love is like an antique vase. It's hard to find, hard to get and so easy to break." Every day, everywhere ... people fall in love. But in fact many of these relationships have a sense of selflessness rather than just relationships which are formed only for the intense feeling of falling in love? I know hundreds of friends who say the magic words "I love you" ... but ften than not, the truth is just this --- I'm in love with you. There is a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone. If a person says she is in love with you, it means she likes you for who you are now and she fell in love with you because of who you are now. This kind of love is temporary and will last only as long as the fairytale lasts. When the good fairy comes at night to bring us back to reality, we see the heartache of such a relationship. But if a person says they love you, it means she loves you unconditionally for who you are now, that you were in the past and that you can be in the future. When a person says she loves you and she really think you need to ask yourself if you also love this person or if you're just in love with the idea of being in love. It is very difficult to see the difference in thinking in a logical manner. May you be blessed throughout your journey in search of a soul mate.